The long hot days of summer get busy, and watering the plants, cutting the grass, and keeping myself hydrated take priority over writing blogs.
Now that I’m finally sitting down to write, I have a lot to say about a trip Kay and I took to Florida in June. We went down to play for a wedding party in Tarpon Springs, with a stop in Amelia Island on the way down, and a visit to the Forgotten Coast on the way back.
Tarpon Springs and the Tampa Bay area are the NOW, and the Forgotten Coast is the THEN. The Ghost???
Stay tuned.
I’ll leave you with the Red Cross’ public service announcement that has John Mayer performing his song, “Heart of Life.” Hope to see you tomorrow!
In his book, A Salty Piece of Land, Jimmy Buffet has a heroine named Cleopatra Highbourne that is 101 years old. Cleopatra sails all around the Caribbean on a 142-foot schooner named Lucretia that is also over a hundred years old. Reading the book you meet Cleopatra in the first few pages. She sparked my curiosity, but at the same time I remember pausing for a moment to think that this might be a little bit ridiculous. I’m a big Jack Sparrow fan and I am not deterred by a little ridiculousness. I can see through to the truth. I’m such a Jack Sparrow fan that once I only narrowly escaped several chances of being locked up while doing my best impersonation. It was in Tampa, Florida during the Gasparilla Pirate Festival. I wandered through a crowd, lost and alone, infuriating mothers of little children, unintentionally antagonizing the police, helplessly trying to find my way from the docks to a parade reviewing stand.
Still, Cleopatra Highbourne has always seemed a little far fetched, until last weekend. Last weekend Kay and I hosted a party at our bed and breakfast, and among the guests were Annie and her mother, Ann Rivers from Chesterfield. Johnny Cash’s mother was a Rivers from Chesterfield. This should have been seen as a sign. It was a beautiful afternoon and as we enjoyed a cocktail hour it soon became apparent that Ann Rivers was very inspiring and quickly becoming the hit of the party. As cocktail parties are meant to do, ours became increasingly lively till the seafood gumbo was served. After we ate, I brought out a couple of guitars and Willie Weeks and I began to entertain. We all sang and laughed and after awhile the Rivers ladies got up and started going around saying their good-byes. As they were leaving, they were met by two carloads of police responding to reports of an out of control party. Their attitudes of authority were thwarted by Anne Rivers’ spunk. Besides, how often do you think they are met by a 97 year old lady when they raid a party? A lady only four years younger than the fictional Cleopatra Highbourne.
A couple of days later I was on the metal roof over a porch cleaning out gutters. Kay was sitting on the porch and heard the commotion as I fell and slid toward the edge. I had made a stupid decision and stepped on a slick spot. “You’re too old to be on the roof,” she fussed after seeing that I was all right. “How old is too old?” I replied. Getting old is not a problem. Staying smart, that’s the trick.
You know that smile you get on your face when you put on a coat that you haven’t worn in a while and you reach in the pocket and find a five dollar bill? Well, I got that smile on my face this past weekend. I was headed down to Ocean Isle from Cheraw. My favorite route these days is to take Hwy. 9 out of Cheraw, SC, 177 out of Wallace, SC, get on 74 near Hamlet, NC, off 74 near Hallsboro, NC cutting over to 130, then right at the caution light in Ash, NC and on in to Ocean Isle. Anyhow, this past Thursday just where the speed limit jumps from 60 to 70 on 74 between Laurinburg and Lumberton, NC, I reached up and hit one of the preset buttons on the radio. In my mind I was thinking, “I just punched the wrong button,” but I liked the song that was playing so I didn’t correct my mistake. I was in the process of increasing my speed and passing another vehicle when another good song came on. This wasn’t supposed to be happening because I had hit the preset for 94.9 The Surf which went off the air in January. Imagine my surprise when the call letters were announced and it was The Surf, back on the air.
My two favorite radio stations—and I think they are the best radio stations in the world—are The Surf in Ocean Drive, SC and WNCW 88.7 out of Spindale, NC. I had punched the preset for The Surf out of habit because where the speed limit changes is also where it comes into range. WNCW comes into range right at the airport in Charlotte as I get off of 485 and onto 85 when I’m headed to the High Country. WNCW plays an eclectic mix of music that is mostly out of the mainstream but is as good as it gets. The Surf plays Beach Music. Both of them are also available through their websites. Why do I think these are the two best radio stations in the world? Because they provide the momentum to keep styles of music going that might die or remain unknown.
Knowing that The Surf is back on the air thrilled me as much or more than I thrilled my Daddy and his friends one day many years ago. I pulled up in front of my Daddy’s grocery store in a new car I had just bought. My dad and his buddies came out to make a detailed inspection and find out the who, what, when, where, and why. They walked around and around, got in and out, and finally burst into laughter when my Daddy said, “You’re the only person I know that would trade cars to get a better radio.”
David Letterman is funny, but he doesn’t always have the best musical acts on his show. However, two weeks ago Emmylou Harris performed a song from her new album on his show. In case you missed it, check it out here. Emmylou’s new album, Hard Bargain, released in late April, has eleven of her new songs and a couple of covers. We have been fans of Emmylou for a long time. When Kay and I first got married, we had a boxer named Emmylou. When Amy was two or three years old, Kay saw Emmylou leaving her dressing room at Merlefest in Wilkesboro, NC. She stopped her and handed Amy to her, and we still have the picture of Emmylou holding Amy.
While we’re on the subject of Dave, did you see Bill Murray showing off his horse riding skills Friday night in preparation for the Kentucky Derby? Click here to watch.
We were pulling for Pants on Fire, but congratulations to Animal Kingdom on the victory. Who were y’all pulling for?
We’re moving on from Cinco de Mayo and heading into Fiesta de Madre this weekend…
Here is a song to get you in the right spirit for Mother’s Day this weekend. This is a performance by one of my daughter Amy’s favorite bands in the Washington, DC area, John K Band. John Kadlecik is the lead guitarist in Furthur but does his own thing around DC. This recording was from his show at the State Theatre in Falls Church, Virginia on December 11, 2010. You might hear Amy and Patrick in the background. They are lucky to have such good musicians right there in the neighborhood.
Kay and I are spending the weekend with Will, Jeannine, Amy, and Patrick!
We’re going to watch the Kentucky Derby Saturday at Canyon’s in Blowing Rock and then we’ll return for Jazz Brunch with Todd Wright and Friends a few hours later. How are you spending your Mother’s Day weekend?
We just got back from Mexico Fiesta Tapatia in Cheraw, where we have our annual Cinco de Mayo celebration. So glad Will and Jeannine were in town to join us this year. We had to trade in their Eskimo hats for some sombreros but it all worked out. My friend Walker came along too but something must have jumped up and got his hat on the way over.
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I woke up Saturday, May 1st, with that old Canned Heat song, “I’m Going up the Country ” on my mind. I was excited about playing later that evening at Southern Eighths which is about as “up the country” as you can get in Chesterfield County. In fact, it is so far up the country that if you pass it, not only will you be out of Chesterfield County, but you’ll be out of South Carolina.
This past Saturday was a beautiful day. Willie Weeks played with me and brought along his girlfriend, Maggie. Kay packed a picnic basket and we went up early and had a wonderful time at the Heart Of The Carolinas Steeplechase Trials. We walked up one of the trails on the farm to watch Randy Boni working on one of his chainsaw carvings. Randy stays with us at the Spears Guest House when he is down from Tennessee. We visited with the participants, judges, and volunteers, a lot of whom were staying at the guest house. But the highlight was the riders on horses. A rider guiding a horse over a jump is art in motion.
We played for a fantastic crowd that evening had a delicious meal and wine tasting. Then we topped it off by playing around the fire late into the night for the folks camping on site. Thank you, Brad and Patti, for a great weekend. You have a great facility and you put on a great event. And one more thing, we didn’t see a single stop sign idiot all day.
It’s so easy to get overwhelmed when you’re trying something new. I remember the first time I ever bought a bagel. We were in Boston and I was sent by our host to get breakfast. At the time, we had beagles—but no bagels—in the south. And this was before cell phones so I couldn’t call for help. I entered the corner store, walked up to the counter, and said, “I want six bagels, please.” The clerk just stared at me with a perplexed look so I repeated myself, “I want six bagels, please.” Then the clerk spoke. “Are you from Australia? I can’t understand what you’re saying.” By this time, two more clerks had moved up to the counter to help the first one stare at me. “I’m from South Carolina,” I said. “We knew it was somewhere down south,” one of the clerks responded, and then added, “What is it that you want?”
“I want six bagels,” I repeated for the third time. “Yoou waaaant sixxx baaagels?” the clerk asked, trying to imitate my accent. I sometimes have trouble understanding folks from up north but it had never occurred to me that they couldn’t understand what I say. Then they really threw a stick in my spokes: “What kind do you want?” one of the clerks asked. “There’s more than one kind?” I replied. “Yes,” laughed the clerk as he pointed to the display case. “Those are bagels?!” I exclaimed, “I thought those were donuts!” Anyhow, it turns out they aren’t anything but bread.
To avoid overwhelming my new guitar students, I start with three easy chords in a pattern: D – A – Em. Four down strokes on the D, four down strokes on the A, and eight down stokes on the Em. I want to get them going. Once they are playing the pattern with confidence then I can explain beats, bars, and upstrokes.
Why D, A, and Em? These are easy chords to finger that can give you a full sound. Why a chord pattern? You can play it over and over and over. It’s like a circle. And it’s fun.
A person who has strength in his fingers can sometimes pick this up in one session. Sometimes it takes two or three. Give it a try.